My neighbors called me some really nasty things. I usually j

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My neighbors called me some really nasty things. I usually just ignore people like that but my husband told the apartment manager. I asked him not to. His intent was pure but it made made my aniexty worse. Previously at jobs in my past I had stood up for myself in the same mannor and it backfired. Once I got called catty and another I was quickly let go. I'm kind of irritated at my husband for doing something i asked him not to do. Does anyone feel he crossed a boundry in this situation? I also feel like its not his job to speak up for me. Its my problem and how i choose to manage is my decision.

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May 15

Ha well I also live in one of these kind of buildings where we're all on top of one another and sound is SOUND and it travels...so do other um...scents...etc..
Was your husband doing this because he thought he was helping the situation? That is kind of a difficult place to be in. You want someone to have your back but then, you don't really want the bully to know bc it can tend to make things even worse...I get it.
I was also bullied by a 'much younger' inexperienced manager who was using every trigger trick to bait me and he knew it...I stood up for myself, tried to explain it all (these ppl are so good at lying about workers). I was let go from a position that I'd been at a long time -funny how original manager who hired me had no problem w me but the New guy...of course had something to prove omg. My work industry is rampantly FILLED with ppl like him...so insane.
Wish i had an answer about figuring out husband reporting neighbor thing...these things are always difficult any way around. maybe see how you feel about it in 3-4 days?

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May 16

@Littlesis Surprisingly nothing has happend yet. They had been drinking when they said the things they said. Regardless u never know with people. However, i guess not everyone can have NPD. Fingers crossed.

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Jun 10

@Noworries Thanks for your support.

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